So I'm down in Los Gatos for my 40th high school reunion. I walking across the big North Santa Cruz, Hiway 9 intersection. There's a heavyset woman with long black hair walking in front of me. Because of her hair style, clothing, and the way she walked, I figured she was younger than myself. (She wore blue jeans and dark t-shirt and her hair didn't look "done.") As we are crossing, a red Cadillac convertible with some youngish men rolled by and one of the guys hollers, "Hey, Chica!" I say "youngish" because the late afternoon sun was glaring against my dark glasses and I couldn't see them all that well.
So, what does it mean?
First, because there was a group of young men in the car, I assume that the targets for this shout were not only the long-haired woman and myself (wearing black t-shirt and black pedal-pushers) but also the other men and anyone else in a car with a window down. Therefore, this shout could have meant any or all of the following:
1. I am a rich young man who has the power and right to make noise in this rich town.
2. You are a Hispanic woman and therefore of lower class than I so I have the right to shout at you.
3. I am really a cool guy because I'm riding in this red Caddy and I want you all to see me.
4. Look, I have the power to intimidate women from a moving vehicle.
5. I must have a lot of testosterone because I'm so hot for anything that moves that I have to shout from a moving vehicle.
6. I am actually from a poorer section of the Valley and this behavior is part of my cultural heritage.
7. I'm petite bourgeois but I want you to think that I'm poor because poor people have street cred and god knows I need some.
8. I'm a gay boy and I'm behaving ironically.
It's impossible, of course, to know how the shot was intended. And, of course, communication is a transaction. I found the shout annoying and disconcerting and perhaps that was it's message. "Hey, middle aged woman! Men in red Caddy convertibles are annoying and disconcerting and I just wanted you to know that!" (9)
2 comments:
I wonder if this will work. Yours is the first blog I've responded to.
Perhaps you have underestimated the combined power of black pedal-pushers and sunglasses to provoke mens' wilderness gene.
Thanks for your comment, Nick.
Ah. Yes, I believe, along with David Buss (http://homepage.psy.utexas.edu/homepage/Group/BussLAB/db_publications.htm) that biology and genetics have a lot to do with the feelings that each gender experiences but I think that culture has more to do with the way those feelings are expressed. In a relatively "non-hollering" culture, I believe that yelling from a car is more about calling attention to the self than an unbridled expression wilderness.
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